I don't understand my daughter who is a mother of a 1 1/2 year old daughter and engaged. Her fiance is sick and she asks me to baby sit and then goes out with a male friend to a water park and doesn't come home till really late. That said she is working 40 hrs. a week and that can be 6 days a week. I am really frustrated with her choices and worry that he baby is not getting enough mom time. Her dad/fiance is the primary care giver and works much less hours. Is this normal behavior ? I mean, what woman goes out to a water park with another man while her fiance is home sick, I don't care how far in advance this was planned. Am I being unresonable? Is this typical of 23 year olds. I just want to shake her and tell her to wake up soon o she won't have a fiance. My husband says that she is going to do what she is going to do and nothing I say will make a difference. So, should I just not say anything? I babysit every week for them and try to give that wonderful little girl as much love and happiness I can.