Originally we were going to do a big to do at home. We have two kids and are paying for the wedding ourselves so after paying all the wedding expenses we would have no money for a honeymoon.
Well recently some family members let it be known that they don't approve of us getting married or my fiancé being with me. :(
Which just led us to think why are we having this huge wedding just for people who are unsupportive, don't really want to be there and for people we don't even know. (People's random dates and such)
We have always said we wanted to go to the Bahamas!! So our first thought was to go there and I found an amazing location for the ceremony but were worried that its such a hassle for everyone as far as traveling, money, getting a passport and such that were considering Hawaii instead....
What would you do?
Hawaii? Bahamas? Or would you still stick it out with the big wedding at home?
(We have only put $100 down at a venu at home so that is all we would lose out on.)