My twins are having a terrible time lately. Lots of hitting, yelling, misbehaving, the whole nine yards. At their physical today the doctor recommended having them tested further, she suspects ODD or something similar because of how long this is going on.
Today was the worst it's been in a long time. Tomorrow is their birthday. My husband told them he wouldn't give them presents because they were misbehaving. I believe gifts are given regardless of behavior, because you love them, especially birthday gifts.
How do others feel? Am I really out of line to think they should still get their birthday gifts despite their behavior? I appreciate your response. Thanks!