We were at a family event and afterwards a couple sisters invited us over. Our son was already in bed in a pack n play at my moms. I know if I left and if he woke up my mom won't hear him. She hasn't had to listen for a baby in decades so she isn't used to it. Along with that I don't get along with my brother in law and he would never be able to sleep with him around. So we stayed at my moms and I could tell he was mad. He ended up getting emotional saying we don't have a life. As far as I thought we did. We went out and did stuff with us for date night and stuff with our son. He told me my cousin invited us and told me I said no to it. I was not aware they invited. I was in the house when that happened. So I had no idea. I woke our son up and we went there for the night. She has 2 kids under the age of 2 so its a kid environment and know it won't be a problem. The last couple days he's been throwing around an idea about canoeing and I don't wanna take our son out on the river. I said if he has a life jacket but I'm still skeptical because he's so tiny, he's 15 months, and doesn't swim. I see nothing but disaster. He got made and said "you're just saying I'm putting my kid in danger". But I want him happy and think we have a life. So it's a lose-lose situation. I put my kid in what I consider danger so that my husband will be happy or I keep my kid safe and make husband mad. He doesn't seem to understand. How do I?