this really surprises me! there was a post about what would you think of a woman who has 6 kids, is a sahm, and her husband does all the cleaning and cooking? and most ppl bashed her, and said things like, she's lazy, and she should get a job! first of all, a husband who is not home sure might be helping out but 90% of the housework/childcare still falls on her shoulders, while he's away. and not only that taking care of 6 kids all day! that's a real job, she dsnt need to get a friggin' job! and how is it that women never support other sahm like this? i dont understand. give some credit, ppl, be understanding, form some empathy instead of bashing all the time! even if the husband does work, i think he should still be involved with the house and kids, maybe not 50/50, but depending on what kind of a job he has, he should still be hands-on at home too. because sahms work 24/7, it's not fair to them too.