This is my first time in a chat room but i figure hey what could it hurt lol
I have been with my boyfriend for a 1 and a half i have a 7 yr old daughter from a previous relationship the father isn't safe to be around my child. This is my first relationship in seven 51/2 years so i am trying to balance boyfriend time and daughter time, although he knows that she is my number one priority. He loves her i can tell that he does, he buys her birthday presents and he watches her here and there. My little issue is that she will want to cuddle with him on the couch or she will want his attention and affection and recently he said he feels smothered he isn't use to it. I can understand that but he has been around for the past year and a half and he said he would work on it. I guess I'm worried that he wont be able to love her as much as i do, she needs that affection shes soooo lovable. How can i make them bond and him not feel so smothered and is it bad that i want him to be more involved even though he isn't her father? lol
Am I horrible???