My daughter was born 34 months ago, and to this day I can hardly think about that time in the hospital. I still get angry over it, I still cry about it sometimes, and I still feel violated and robbed of what a birth is supposed to be. I know there are other women in similar situations, I just wonder if any of them are here. And if you have any advice on how to get past it.
Yes, my daughter is fine and healthy and perfect in every way. It's not about that. And I don't want to hear that the baby is all that matters. It's not. If you haven't been there, you probably wouldn't get that.