Hello Ladies! I chose to join this forum so I could get the best advice from the women who know best. My husband and I have been together for 11 years and married for 3 years. I am 29 and he is 57. For the past year he has been telling me often that he really wants to have a baby and I have been very hesitant as I feel our lives cant handle a baby. His brother who has special needs and lives full time with us, 2 dogs and 2 cats, self employed working from home, and we really enjoy being able to do anything and go anywhere when we want. It's a huge obstacle I can't see around, mostly being able to be lazy, sleep, go out of town, or run any errand without having to worry about anything. I would like to know if these priorities that matter so much to me now, if after the baby arrives, I could care less about what was before. It's all very scary to me. Please help!