I have a 5 yr old son who started 4k this yr(his birthday is late) he has been acting up in school...today was the worst day. The teacher has sent a letter home twice this yr asking to tell him the importance of listening and following directions...my husband and I both talked to him and seemed like it was better. We thought it was just a phase since he was still trying to get use to the whole school thing since his whole life he has only been with me or close family Well today the teacher called me and told me he was throwing an awful tantrum and wanted me to get him. When I got to school he had fell asleep for naptime...his teacher then proceeded to tell me he pulled her thumb backwards and also hit her...I wanted to breakdown and just cry when she told me this...I didn't k n ow what to say other then to apologize for his behavior. When he woke up he knew when he seen me he was in trouble, I told him to apologize to his teacher. I told him he was not allowed to play any games and no tv for the weekend. He will write her an apology note to take Monday....other than that I don't k n ow what else to do...I feel like a failure as a mother but probably more embarrassed than anything..please help!!