I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years and we have been having the conversations of my 3 year old stayin with her dad after he graduates college in may. He says that he thinks its a good idea not only so she can have a better relationship with her dad but also because he wants to be able to spend more time with or as he put he wouldnt have to share me. The main thing is i told him tonight my daughter will always come first and his response was how can we have a healthy relationship if it NEVER comes first. I am haveing extreme mixed feelings about this. Anyone been in this situation? Any advice?