HELP! Advice please!! Sister/children rocky waters.
Hi all! I could really use some objective opinions. I just finished week one of my 3 1/2 week stay with my sister ad her family in another state. Her oldest son is 5 and is very unruly due to lack of discipline. My son is 3 and we live a very differnet lifestyle form theirs. Anyways~ Since day one of us staying at their house, her son has been very aggressive towards my son. This happened a year and ahalf ago also when my whole family came to visit, and I thought things had changed since then. So this is the scenario I need some advice on:
We will take tonight as an example~ Her son and my son were playing with Lego Duplos on the ground together. My son went to put a lego on the top of their "tower" and her son didnt want it there and starting throwing a little fit (crying and pushing my sons hand away) he wanted it put somewhere else. When my son did not comply, her son stood up and screamed in my sons face. My son was scared and taken aback (he is never treated this way by any of his friends/other cousins) and he screamed back. Then her son got really mad and screamed and punched the air at m y son, intimidating like he was going to hit him and screamed at him he didnt like him. My son was in tears and screamed back in anger/frustration. her son then covered his ears and starting acting theatrical that my son was hurting his ears.
This is the 1st time all week I said anything about it~ I said "I am having a really hard with that. (My son) is never experiences that kind of anger towards him, ever." And she said top me that my son was over stepping his boundary and trying to build on her sons lego tower.
I have 2 1/3 more weeks to spennd here. Where do we go from here?!
HELP!! Advice, please!!