Obviously I have no clue how hard a newborn baby is on a daily basis, because my first son is due in 4 weeks. Here's the thing though, no matter how many times I'm told I won't get any sleep, he will cry all the time, all the horrible stuff that can happen, I DON'T CARE! I'm 31 years old, I've bent trying to have a baby for YEARS, for the love of God just let me be excited for this perfect miracle that I have been waiting for! Let me live in the delusion that I will be excited every moment I get to see his face, even at 2am, then 4am, then 5:17am. If it is so freaking bad, why not let expecting moms have sometime to just be happy, instead of irritated and fearful because everything is going to suck in a few months? I'm sorry for sounding bitchy, but I'm really tired of only being told the negatives about babies.
Thank you so much ladies, it is really cool to see so much support an positive reinforcement!
on Nov. 28, 2013 at 10:54 AM