I know circumstances suck, and even though we planned ahead, we couldn't stop the snowball effect. After Christmas vacation I'm going to have to take my work issues to corporate. (Long story about discrimination for me being pregnant.) We don't want help, but I can't stop myself from feeling like crap. No, none of this was my fault, or my boyfriend's. Stuff happens, and it stinks. At least there will be gifts from (some) family, and the main celebration will be faith-based, but still...my boyfriend and I both feel like we failed even though we didn't. We took all the proper steps, and things still blew up in our faces.
I don't think there's any advice to be given, but I really needed to vent...it helps to get it out. Thanks if you actually read all of this. :-/