These are my DHs sisters! But they constantly exclude my kids. This year my DS noticed. Asked me why he only had 1 present and they had so many more! We always get all of the kids under 14 a gift- no matter who those kids are, and I get that not everyone can do that.... But really? She is their AUNT! She favors her sisters kids over ours? Not even a card or anything. I asked DH about it and he said they're just like that and always were. I am considering leaving before the gift exchange from now on because he won't say anything and I doubt that it will ever change.
Am I being unreasonable that she SHOULD consider all of her nieces & nephews and not just her 2 favorite? (Oh and it's not that the kids need anything or mom can't afford Christmas. They are spoiled and have so much that half of their toys reside at granny & papas house! )