I need some major advice right now and im not too sure what i am suppose to do. Ive been wit my Fiance for almost four years. We have a two year old daughter together. to make a long story short, i pay for food, clothes, bills, my engagement ring, and everything that we need in the house. He cannot get job cuz he does not have a GED or diploma, and refuses to get one. hes lazy and sits at home. there have been some occassions when he gets really angry he has punched holes in the wall, emotionally abused me and has done a lil physical stuff to me as well. idk why i let him stay but i do have feelings for him and i dont know what to do. i dont want to split my daughter in half, but im not happy. he has a few good qualitites but not many. i wanna be happy. but im scared to let him go and im scared to be looked at as a failure as a woman. i have a son from a different marriage cuz he cheated on me with a stripper. so im afraid i look like a failure to men, and i know i dont need one in my life. i currently have my AA in Medical Assisting and currently going to school for my BA in healthcare management. can i get a little bit of advice????
any would help. :)