I can already hear my mil thinking that im stealing my sil thunder & that i had better not expect another shower. And everyone thinks it is my responsibility to host her shower. Back story is my sil just got married in july. Not only was i totally not included in the wedding, i helped plan/pay for her bacholerette, i paid/created/executed the menu for her surprise bridal shower (which i was told was happening the evening before!), i hand made my daughters flower girl dress for her wedding, i also paid for supplies and executed the wedding flowers & reception centerpieces. Nor was I asked to have my pic taken with her in the special garden where she had pics with all of the other women.
What do I do? Im not going to announce this pregnancy until I know for sure all is healthy. I become so anxious about announcing this news that I want to runaway & keep this treasured experience to myself. Their negativity just infuriates me. Im an anxious mess.