Ok. My daughter is turning 14 and ask me if she can start dating. My response was the age to datin is 16. I think she is still far too young! Of course she doesnt like that answer. She preceeds telling me all of her friends gets to have boyfriends and do things but she doesnt. She yelled at me saying That I treat her like a baby and she will just ask her dad about it she is sure he will be less strict than I am. I told her father wouldn't agree to allowing her to do such a thing at a young age still. And if she can't respect me with lower her tone and stop with the attitude than she will lose her cell and internet. She got smart and more mouthy so I took her phone. As I was goin thru it this morning I found some very provocative photos of her that She sent to several boys. As well from Readin text it seem she has been Actin sexually with them.I haven't spoken to her about this. I never dealt with this with my oldest daughter. I'm just tryin to think of a way to talk with her and want to hear what's going on in her. I know things been very rough with my goin thru separation and all the hard things I'm facing with my DH. I didn't have a clue any of this stuff was going on with her. It really makes me not want her dating. But than again she already is basically sneaking around doing it! How would any of you handle this? Appreciate any helpful feedback!
on Feb. 6, 2014 at 12:10 PM