Do u ever feel like u have no control over your life? I do. My body says when and how many babies are coming out and how they come out. My money dictates how my life will be lived and no bf is deciding for me by having a vastectomy that we ate done having children together whether I want to or not. Then if I want to adopt children it has to be approved by someone else. If I decided to leave bf then a judge gets to decided what happens to our children. What can't I just do with my life what I want to without someone ekes telling me what that is?