I can't spank my kids. We punish in our house for violence and thats just contradicting our rules. Some people do it most don't. I have a friend that dose. I'm not going to judge him but it does break my heart to watch. The question is, Why were people so ok with it before. What made our generation feel so strongly about it. I got spanked im sure most of you got spanked and so did my parents what changed?