I'm 22 years old. Stay at home mom.My son is 4 months old this week. My husband and I paid off our truck and our home. I will be going back to school this fall to finish my bachelors degree. I love my beautiful son and amazing husband, I cherish the one on one time I spend with each of them. It is tough living on just my husband's income, since there are so many things we want to do, house projects, go on our honeymoon finally etc. But we do pay our bills on time, we are able to buy groceries and gas when we start running low on either. So obviously life isn't bad for us either.
Alright intro. story over haha here's the concern of mine.
I want to have another baby. My husband and I have been discussing it a little every now and then. My husband is wary of trying to consieve (starting this summer). Reason #1: the two babies would share a room until we move into a larger home (few years down the road.) Reason #2: We live on only his income right now. Reason #3: he is afraid I won't be able to cope with 2 young children, while going back to school.
We want to have at least 2 kids, a max of 4 by the time we are thirty. I just need advice on where I go from here. Is my husband right? Should we wait? Is there any way to make it work (trying for baby #2 this summer)? If there is, how can I convince my husband? What kind of structure do I need to bring to my life and home to make this work? My husbands worries about the topic are starting to make me lose hope in him agreeing to try this summer (he kind of says yes then kind of says no.)