When I found out I was pregnant with my daughter my SO told me he wanted to stop working after the baby was born, he told me when she was a year old I could start back working but he wanted to take care of her for the first year and I agreed.
My daughter will be one in may, I told him Monday that we need to start looking for daycare because I will be getting ready to go back to work soon as she turns one. He thinks that I am trying to rush it, I just feel that the year is almost up and I want to be comfortable going back to work knowing she is in a safe environment and is happy.
SO thinks I should just stay home with her until she is old enough to go to kindergarten or at least preschool. I told him that wasn't what we discussed before and she will be fine going to daycare my boys started at 10 months and are just fine.
It seems likes this is going to be a never ending argument. Am I in the wrong fir wanting for wanting to go back to work? If you were in my situation how would you handle it?