So we have been going to church over the past few weeks & 2 Sundays ago I sent dh outside with my son & asked the preached about marriage counceling & he said he can do that. I went out to the car & he kept asking me what I talked to him about & I didn't tell him. So these last 2 weeks have been really different from what they were. He is doing more & not on the game as much either. So we shall see where God is taking us now!!
Ok I need some advice on how to handle something.
My husband retired about a year ago & I really wish he would go back to work!! I work from home & need to be able to count on him to take care of the kid & the house esp since he is in the house while I am working in my office. Thing is he doesn't do anything!! All day long he plays the ps3 or is playing a game on his computer. He leaves the area around the ps3 dirty & he doesn't tell my son to clean up after himself. My house is a wreck! I can go clean it up & it just goes right back to the way it was before. Unless I am in the house nothing gets done!!
I work in an attached office so I am able to go into the house whenever I want & I think that is why husband doesn't actually see that I work.
I have talk to him about this & he has a different reason for everytime I bring it up to me. I even did it the way he used to tell me to clean which was mean & he was like yeah that is going to get someone to do something! I was like yeah I know it didn't feel good when you did it towards me either.
I used to have a house keeper, but there really isn't a point when it will be a mess right after she leaves!!
When I was the one that took care of the house while he worked I was able to take care of the house & the kids & everything that a woman normally does & I still do most of that I JUST WANT HIM TO KEEP THE HOUSE CLEAN!!
At this point I just want to stay in my office & not leave it!!
50 lbs gone!!! WOOHOO!!