My sister-in-law has been helping take care of my son, who is now three months old. I don't agree with taking pictures of him nude from the front no matter how old he is. I have expressed this to her numerous times. My husband had taken a couple pictures of him right after he was born and of course the baby was nude -- I am okay with US having these pictures. However, he sent them to his sister after she asked for them and I found out that she had been showing them to her boyfriends/sugar daddies (yes, those are both plural) and other random friends. I told her at that time that I did not like her showing the pictures to anybody. Since then, she has taken pictures of him spread-eagle in his baby bather while I was at work. When I found out she had them I was upset and she told me she wasn't going to show them to anyone. I just found out from her newest boyfriend of three days that she has been showing these new pictures to him and a bunch of other people. While she was in the bathroom I went into her phone and deleted one of the photos before she came out. I know I shouldn't go into other people's cell phones, but she should not be showing nude pictures of my child to everyone without my permission either! As I sit here fuming, I want to pull her aside and tell her to delete all of the nude photos she has of him in her phone and tell her that this is where I draw the line. I don't even want to leave her alone with him anymore. I know he is just a baby but it's the way she takes the pictures and both her and my husband are constantly bragging about how "well endowed" he is. He is just a baby! She is extremely close with my husband, having almost raised him herself and sees our child as if it were her grandchild, not just a nephew. I know my husband doesn't care either way, but I am his mother and I feel like my opinions in regards to my child should be respected. My stomach turns every time I imagine her showing those pictures to anyone. Am I wrong to take her aside and basically "let her have it" while making her delete any photos she has? I am trying to calm down and wait until another day to do it while we are alone together instead of while my husband and her boyfriend are present.