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5 Myths & Realities About Epidurals - Did YOU have an epidural?

Posted by on May. 5, 2014 at 9:11 AM
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5 Myths & Realities About Epidurals

by Michele Zipp

mother in labor hospitalAlmost from the second you're pregnant, one of your biggest questions is: How is this baby going to get out of me?! Of course, you know the answer, but what you're really worried about is the pain of childbirth. After all, a newborn's head is usually bigger than the size of a grapefruit.

One of the most common ways of dealing with pain the delivery room is the epidural -- at least 60 percent of American moms are choosing this form of pain management. Lots of them joke about it after: "The epidural was my best friend!" But deciding whether or not it's for you is a big decision. Many moms struggle with the idea that getting an epidural makes them a "wimp" (it doesn't), and more importantly they want to know whether getting an epidural is safe for them -- and their baby.

There are a lot of common myths about epidurals, and here, we address them, and give you the facts you need to help make your decision.

We asked Paloma Toledo, M.D., Obstetric physician anesthesiologist and Assistant Professor of Anesthesiology at Northwestern University Feinberg School of Medicine, to address the most common misconceptions about epidurals during labor. Here, the facts you need.

Myth 1: Epidurals can cause permanent back pain or paralysis in the mother.
Fact:
Serious complications from an epidural, including paralysis, are extremely rare. Some women have discomfort in the lower back (where the catheter was inserted) for a few hours or days after the epidural, but it doesn’t last.    

Myth 2: Epidurals can harm the baby.
Fact: In Dr. Toledo’s study, published last year in the International Journal of Obstetric Anesthesia, women expressed concern that an epidural could cause cerebral palsy or be harmful to the baby -- no evidence or research corroborates these concerns. Additionally, the amount of medication that reaches the baby from the epidural is so small it doesn’t cause harm.    

More From The Stir: Everything You've Ever Wanted to Know About Epidurals But Were Afraid to Ask

Myth 3: Epidurals can slow down labor -- or increase the risk of having a C-section.
Fact: There is no credible evidence that an epidural slows down labor or increases your risk of having a c-section. If a woman has a C-section, other factors usually are at play. In fact, there is evidence that epidurals can speed the first stage of labor for some women.   

Myth 4: An epidural interferes with the birth experience.
Fact:
Some women express fear that their legs will be numb and they won’t be able to walk, feel a contraction or push properly. In fact, your legs should not be so numb that you do not feel them. You may be able to walk after an epidural, depending on the hospital’s policy; however, walking generally is not recommended immediately after the epidural is placed. Epidural procedures have improved significantly in the last 20 years, and you’ll receive enough medication to relieve the pain without taking away your ability to move. Furthermore, the epidural medications will not cause you to be groggy or tired. In other words, you’ll be able to feel contractions -- they just won’t hurt -- and you’ll be able to push effectively.    

More from The Stir: 8 Natural Ways Women Can Manage Pain During Labor

Myth 5: There’s a limited window of time when you can get an epidural.
Fact: You can get an epidural any time you are in labor -- in the beginning, the middle or even toward the end.     

There are many ways to have the best birth, and that answer is unique to each woman and baby being born. The key is to do your research and prepare yourself with knowledge so you have options. If an epidural isn't for you, there are many other ways to manage pain during labor and delivery. And once you're holding that bundle of joy in your arms, you'll forget all about the pain anyway -- or so they say.

Are you considering an epidural? What's your biggest concern? (If you've had one, please share your experience.)

by on May. 5, 2014 at 9:11 AM
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booaura
by Bronze Member on May. 5, 2014 at 9:15 AM
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No, never have, and never will. I'd like some links to these studies, as everything I've ever read or heard, from reputable sources, like the JMWH and the AJOG, support the 'myths'.

The simple facts are, an epidural is an unnecessary risk.
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Bmat
by Barb on May. 5, 2014 at 9:17 AM
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I won't be having any more children. But a concern I would personally have about an epidural is someone working so near my spinal cord.

steffielou_who
by Silver Member on May. 5, 2014 at 9:21 AM
I had epidural both times and I have severe pain in that area.. When you barely push on it, it hurts so bad!
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PinkButterfly66
by Bronze Member on May. 5, 2014 at 9:42 AM
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Yeah I had an epidural.  Had absolutely no complications from it afterwards either.  I'd never give birth again without it.  

JC2223
by Bronze Member on May. 5, 2014 at 9:53 AM

Out of all the births between my sisters and I, I was the only one with a "successful" epidural. I didn't want one initially or any other pain management drugs at all, but my contractions during hard labor were plateauing for 45-50 seconds (meaning they would peak to the highest point and stay at that level for that length of time before descending). After enduring that for 2 hours, my breathing was becoming too labored and my Oxygen levels were dropping. I opted for what my hospital called a "walking epidural", though I was petrified of back injury or paralyzation, I couldn't take the pain or the risk of low Oxygen levels anymore and other drugs were out of the question for me. I was numbed from the center of my torso to my mid-thigh, so I could still walk around and use the bathroom on my own. It did slow my contractions from every 2-3 min, to every 6-7 min. I was given a dose of pitocin to speed them back up again. Thankfully DD's birth went fine and I had no lasting effects.

My older sister was given a full epidural with her first child's birth and her contractions stopped for a while and never went back up to a production level to help her dialate fully. After 34 hours, they opted for a C-section. She chose C-sections for her next 2 children. My younger sister had a bad spinal leak with her first. She needed 3 blood patches over the 2 weeks following her son's birth. When she had her second child last year, the epidural only took on one side. She still has pain and problems with her back.

bluevelvetKS
by on May. 5, 2014 at 10:08 AM

Never had and hopefully never will. First of all, I know people who did have side affects from the epidural that last many weeks (numbness, horrific migraines etc) and secondly, someone putting a really big needle near my spinal cord while I'm contracting is not my idea of a "safe" procedure.

atlmom2
by Ruby Member on May. 5, 2014 at 10:13 AM
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I had epidurals and had zero issues with it.  I wouldn't have labor without one.  Why be in terrible pain when you don't have to be??

alexsmomaubrys2
by Silver Member on May. 5, 2014 at 10:14 AM

Nope. No need for an epidural. 

ceciliam
by Cecilia on May. 5, 2014 at 10:24 AM
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My plan was a natural birth but I ended up needing a c-section so I had to an epidural. Epidural and c-section were my 2 biggest fears and I ended up with both, but honestly neither was that bad. The worst part of the epidural was feeling the fluid go down my spine...freaky. I also had that paralysis fear, so afterwards everytime the nurse came in my room, I would ask her if she was sure I wouldn't end up paralyzed. lol.

SweetPea2004
by Member on May. 5, 2014 at 10:26 AM

4-a truth for me I could not feel anything it sucked

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