who is 4. I am single living with my parents, I do not have a license and work at a job where i sometimes get 40 hours a week. On top of that I try to clean and cook for a household of 6 people. I would love to go awayto a convention for 3 days, but my mother would probably tell me no, and then would make me feel bad about leaving my kids, but honestly I need a break. Any advice for me would be greatly appreciated, also my kids are not in daycare because I cannot afford it.