My husband has turned into this self centered, selfish person that I feel like I don't even know. We have been together for 18 years. 8 years ago I got injured at work and got a small settlement that I put toward our mortgage so the payments would be low enough so we can survive on one income because I can't find sustainable work with my injury. So I became a stay at home mom with limited ability to maintain the house but I do what I can. I really depend on him a lot. Maybe he resents that but he won't say so. But on with my rant, before my injury every thing was 50/50 but now he has become obsessive, like what his is his, and what mine is his. A few examples, my computer died but he wouldn't let me use his but now his computer is dead and he EXPECTS me to give up mine. I am not ALLOWED to sit on HIS couch, but he can sit on mine. I am not ALLOWED to drive HIS truck yet he takes mine all the time. Which mind you, leaves me without a vehicle. I get so mad, and so hurt by this. He is 38, I wonder if this is maybe like a midlife crises thing. Oh and I should add that he is angry almost ALL the time.
Added info: I feel that I should add that yes, I said he is 38 but he is aging faster than most, for example he started going gray at 21 and has a condition that only men over 50 get, and he has had it for 7 years now.