I want to know if I'm the only parent going through this. Am I alone in having my 11-year-old daughter blatently refusing to do as she's asked. I'm not expecting her to sweep and mop the floors (at least not yet anyway, LOL), but general things, like picking up her bedroom, putting things away (i.e., milk after pouring herself a glass), not keeping food/dishes in her bedroom (which attracts bugs, of course), talking to me with respect, making sure she has towels BEFORE she takes a shower. Things like that. Please let me know if I'm the ONLY parent going through this or not. Thank you!