He said the L word...I'm not ready.update...kinda hurt.
A man that is really intrested in me (I am a single mom) he is newely divorced (couple months) but has been separated for a year. I have been separted for 8 years just havent gotten around to file for divorce.
I told him that nothing could happen until I am actually divorced (maybe thats why I havnt done it, I use it as a crutch)
Thing is he keeps talking about "plans" more babies, moving in, and sex on the beach(never going to happen I hate sex as it is in public sends my anxiety through the roof)..I have told him with my medical issues I was lucky enough that my Neurofibromatosis type I didnt get passed on to my son that I dont want to risk it with another child. Not to mention that he has three kid from two different women. (age 13-3)
But now he has started saying "love you"
I dont want to say that untill I am ready...but how do I not say it and not sound like a bitch?
update- He is now facebooking me about how he told another girl that he likes her but she responded with the whole "I see you as a big brother" thing.... Kinda hurts a little that he on one hand talks about "loving" me and on the other hand talks about this other woman that he wants to move in with and how hurt he is that after he told her that he has liked her for a long time and wants more that she just sees him as a older brother.