My 6 year old's biological father has been in and out of his life. Right now there are 3 supervised visits until we go to court. He has missed the second one, which was today. My husband has pretty much been his father so I don't think my son seems to care about his real dad being in and out of the picture. I know it will probably catch up with him later and I'm of course extremely concerned. His dad didn't contact him for 10 months and there were only 3 supervised visits for one hour. Today was the second one and he cancelled at the last minute. I feel like if he really wanted to see him then he would have made it happen. Does anyone have any advice? Does anyone know how bad this is going to look when we go to court? My husband is willing to adopt him, but his father isn't willing to do that. I'm not sure why.....like I said, he will go months with no contact. But does anyone know how bad this is going to look when the judge sees that he cancelled his second supervised visit when there is only 3 of them?