So my 12 yr old dd is in 7th grade at a new school. The only option for kids there is baseketball or study hall.. She wanted to play bball.. We have never done any sport before so its all new to me. Well we found out just tuesday she needed a physical to play.. Apparently to even be in that class. They told her yesterday that she had till the end of the week to get it.. So I got her scheduled for one tomorrow morning at 815..
They kicked her out of the class and changed her schedule today, because of no physical. So shes upset that 4 days into school, without even a chance she got kicked out of class and no chance to play bball. ( which the season doesnt even start till after foot ball so like decemeber before games!) Im pissed off because 1. They said end of week, thats tommorrow not thursday and I have it scheduled, she would have had it before the class period. 2. Even though they have 4 phone numbers and 2 email addresses ( mine and hubbys) the school made NO effort to contact me, and see if we were getting a physical or what. 3. I dont know wether to take her to get the physical becuase if she cant play, if they wont let it change back, that would be wasting 50 bucks to get the physical. 4. When we registered 2 weeks ago, they did not say anything about a physical having to be done before school started or we would have gotten it done already.
Now before the bashers start saying " you should have Known to get a physical" Sorry that I didnt magically know, with having never been envolved in any kind of sports myself or previously with the kids, to get one. And to be honest if I had even thought about needing a physical to play bball.. I probably would have thought it needed to be done around when that sport was played.. Just really burns my buttons that she is being punished because I didnt know something ahead of time, and we have it set to be fixed, but they didnt give the time limit they said we had. Cant protect kids from everything, and Ill use it as a " life isnt always fair" thing.. but I cant help being mad. I will be calling the school first thing in the morning.. See if still need to get the physical
Goodness, seems like a lot of bickering and like my point was sort of lost a bit..lol
1. not complaining about the cost. Although if she was kicked off and not allowed back on, then the money would be wasted.. She will get her annual well child check up after her birthday, its already scheduled for 1 yr and 1 day after her last one.. Which is what insurance requires. Sports physical is different,.and you only need it for playing a sport..
2nd My complaint was not even that she had to have one.. It was that I was expected to know it without any experience in atheletics and no one bothered to tell me when she signed up (2 weeks ago btw) , and then she was being punished within 4 days of school starting by kicking her out of class/off the team before even having a chance.
3rd. That she was told to have it by a certain time, I scheduled it.. and they kicked her before the deadline had passed.. Put it in perspective.. "Ok class you have a paper due on Friday, dont forget" Thursday (day before its due) Teacher gives all the students who havent turned it in an F. Kind of unfair dont you think?
BTW School said only allowed one change... She will not be allowed to play basketball even with the physical.. It's not worth fighting the school over.. She is disapointed but luckily she wasnt a die hard athelete or something and it was the end of the world.. kwim. Still sucks though that she was treated unfairly. Anyway you ladies have a good one =)