Here is the story, my son, johnny is 16 he started having sex, i can deal with that, but its the girlfriend, if thats what you want to call it, she (17yrs.old) is living with her 19yr old boyfriend, in her parents home. She is also "dating" my son and they are having sex. She told my son we dont care about him because we dont want them seeing each othere. i havnt stopped it, but i am wondering what to do, do i tell the other boyfriend whats going on? My son is hurting because she wont get rid of the othere guy, but yet doesnt want to not beleive her that she loves him. i believe this is very toxic for him, i dont want him to think its ok to do this to anyone. please help.