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Need advice about my marriage

Posted by on Jan. 31, 2015 at 8:49 PM
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I have been having a lot of trouble in my marriage lately. We moved in november and we have not talked to each other since we left the other state. The only time he talks to me is when he is mad at me about something I did or didn't do or say or didn't say. It has been going downhill for a long time now. 

I just had back surgery so I can not work for another 2 months so I can't save money to leave. 

by on Jan. 31, 2015 at 8:49 PM
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beadingmom17
by Silver Member on Jan. 31, 2015 at 8:53 PM
Why haven't you talked? What prompted the move?
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KimmyShaw
by Bronze Member on Jan. 31, 2015 at 8:54 PM
What do you mean? Does he ignore you when you talk to him? What about counseling?
countrygirlkat
by Kathleen on Jan. 31, 2015 at 8:55 PM
Have you gone to counseling? The book The Love Dare is also great.
crochetmom1983
by New Member on Jan. 31, 2015 at 9:02 PM

we have barely talked to each other in about a year now and he refuses to go to counseling. I tried the love dare on him and he just got mad every day of it. 

crochetmom1983
by New Member on Jan. 31, 2015 at 9:12 PM

we moved because he got out of the army 

a_and_j_momma
by Platinum Member on Jan. 31, 2015 at 9:13 PM
When you ask him why, what does he say?
crochetmom1983
by New Member on Jan. 31, 2015 at 9:16 PM

he says I am just a stupid bitch that pisses him off. If I would start doing everything when he wants and how he wants he would be fine. but you don't do anything. 

trulyblessed618
by Bronze Member on Jan. 31, 2015 at 9:21 PM
What is it he wants? Did something happen to him in the army?
crochetmom1983
by New Member on Jan. 31, 2015 at 9:27 PM

nothing happened to him he started acting really mean to me since I had my son. he will be 10 in april. he started telling me about a year ago he wants to do a threesome and I said no so he has been really mean since. 

mrswillie
by Platinum Member on Feb. 1, 2015 at 9:31 AM
How about counseling?

Quoting crochetmom1983:

nothing happened to him he started acting really mean to me since I had my son. he will be 10 in april. he started telling me about a year ago he wants to do a threesome and I said no so he has been really mean since. 

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