Hey, I am a 20 year old Mom of an 8 month old baby. Recently my Husband of 8 months informed me that he wanted a separation. He said I needed to find a place to live before the lease is up on our apartment in May. I have talked to him about getting us some help for our marriage since we are a fairly new couple but he says he won't change his mind. He did state that he still loves me and might come back to me but I'm not sure when that will be. Should I began looking for a place now? He says he will be staying with a friend but we have furniture, and other belongings that neither he and I will be able to keep if we move out. If he does ask me back it will be hard to reverse everything. It will already be difficult to find myself and my daughter a place to stay and I will probably have to work full time too. I don't know ...what would you do if you were in my shoes?
My husband thinks theres too much drama involved with our relationship and he says he's confused about life. He also says he wants to go back to his old life. I agree that we do need a change in our marriage but I thought that the first year was always kind of rough...
on Jan. 25, 2008 at 5:51 PM