My husband keep letting his mother/ family disrespect me.......
I don't understand why my husband can't stand up to his family especially his mother.
My husband and I have been going to marriage counseling. Which didn't help him at all. It went into one ear and out the other on his end.
We suppose to have got insurance on each other but like always my husband didn't follow through on his end. I have my insurance set up for him and the kids but he don't have insurance set up for himself for the kids and I just in-case something may happen to him. Wonder why ladies because of the advice he has been getting from his mother.
Lately we have been in silence. He do not call his mother around me which I think is stupid because I don't want him to choose between his mother and I. For two months now he haven't spoken to her on the phone around me. Remind you she lives in Ohio.
The day before Father's Day his family sent him a card in the mail it says " Happy First Father's Day" and they put $5 in the card and said " James take yourself out to lunch". My youngest son is his biological child. I have a 9yr and 5yr whom has been calling him daddy for the last 6years. Clearly, it is not his FIRST FATHER"S DAY... I was pisted off because why send only $5! we are a family $5 cant feed us all and THIS YEAR WAS NOT HIS FIRST FATHER"S DAY!
This what really cut the cake. My husband has a family reunion is this weekend in Ohio His mother said your wife and her two kids are not welcome in my home. But Elijah and you are....
I was angry because when they came down year last month even though we wasn't on the best of terms I let her stay in my house, and I cooked.
I am more so mad at my husband because til this day he can not put his foot down when it comes to his family disrespecting me. Ladies you know what he is still going to Ohio.
My children including Elijah are NOT going because I will not have anyone single out my children.
I am seriously thinking about getting a divorce because this have been going on way too long.
In my opinion my husband do not respect me along because if he did he would put his foot down.
Ladies what you do think about this? I need your advice.