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i dont know what to do please help!!!!!

Posted by on Dec. 15, 2008 at 7:11 PM
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Ok so few months ago where i work a guy got busted for child porn, trying to sell it and all this creepy stuff.. there was nothing sexual with the kids, but he had hidden cameras in the house to catch the kids undressing in his bathroom. he had a pool all the neighbor hood kids came and went swimming. ANYWHO this girl i work with was dating him but also going through a very messy divorce, and her daughters are on video undressing... so here is my question, i just found out that The lady i work with is not only still dating him, but he asked her to marry him and she accepted!!! supposdly her kids and soon to be ex dont know any of this!  i asked my mom what i should do and she says someone needs to tell her husband that they are engaged........what would u ladies do???? and let me add i dont understand how this lady can want to marry this man, after video taping her daughters who are 13 or 14 undressing, he is still not in jail but going through court, he knows hes going to jail bc they have so uch on him

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Amybelle
by on Dec. 15, 2008 at 7:14 PM

TELL!!! Someone needs to look out for the saftey of those girls since their Mother isn't!!!

momcat437
by on Dec. 15, 2008 at 7:15 PM

Yup, tell her ex!  If the guy got busted, then he's got a record, and the kids' dad has every right to know what kind of stepdad his kids will have!!  Good luck and God bless!!

tootsie-roll
by on Dec. 15, 2008 at 7:15 PM

OK TO ME THATS JUST WRONG WHY THE HELL WOULD U MARRY A GUY THAT HAS CAMERA'S OF KIDS UNDRESSING THATS WRONG...SORRY BUT HELL NO WOULD I MARRY ANYONE LIKE THAT...THATS JUST WRONG

scspurgeon
by on Dec. 15, 2008 at 7:16 PM

If you know the father then I would tell him! He has a right to know those are his daughter's too!

mommytoElijah
by on Dec. 15, 2008 at 7:17 PM

i dont know their father, maybe ill write a letter bc i can get her old address from work, i dont know i just feel so bad for thoes girls!

Quoting scspurgeon:

If you know the father then I would tell him! He has a right to know those are his daughter's too!


MedicMommyAnne
by on Dec. 15, 2008 at 7:18 PM

I would tell him.  If you aren't comfortable talking to him, you can send him a letter telling him.  Even if he doesn't know who it is from, I'm sure he would confront her.  Someone needs to protect those girls

mommytoElijah
by on Dec. 15, 2008 at 7:20 PM

I have no idea she is stuid i could never do that i would have done my damnedest not to hurt him. i just feel sick to my stomach everyday i have to see this women and i want to punch her in her face bc she is so stuip. it should be child endangerment

Quoting tootsie-roll:

OK TO ME THATS JUST WRONG WHY THE HELL WOULD U MARRY A GUY THAT HAS CAMERA'S OF KIDS UNDRESSING THATS WRONG...SORRY BUT HELL NO WOULD I MARRY ANYONE LIKE THAT...THATS JUST WRONG


connorsmommy120
by on Dec. 15, 2008 at 7:36 PM

how come  CPS hasn't gotten involved. where i live if that happened and the lady was still with him, CPS would definitely get involved. and the girls would get taken away if the mother didn't keep her girls away from him.

maryinger
by on Dec. 15, 2008 at 7:39 PM

if there is anything legal written down proving that this man was busted for child pornography of this sort, i'd call child protective services! i don't know how seriously they will take it but i'm assuming they'll consider it child endangerment on her part. that's very sick... you should definitely do something.... and the father should know about this......

Katy_Lentz
by on Dec. 15, 2008 at 7:46 PM

I wouldn't tell the ex husband, I would call social services and report this! They will then contact the dad! Good luck

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