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Sex question...... help please!!!

Posted by on Feb. 5, 2009 at 12:30 PM
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Okay, so my fiance and I have seriously had sex 5 times since really late Saturday night, and we really haven't had time to have it anymore. Good sex, he's gotten off everytime. BUT for some reason I got on the computer today and the history shows he's been looking at porn for the last 4 days in a row.......... So here I am giving it up all the time, because he told me 4 times a week wasn't enough (Which is fine because I LOVE having sex), and he's looking a porn and jerking off anyways.............. I feel HORRIBLE........... I understand if he does it like one time a week or something or if he's NOT getting any, but jeeze...... he sure knows how to make a girl feel like she's not good enough..............


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Bree303
by on Feb. 5, 2009 at 12:33 PM

It's not you dear, it's him.  Just be straight with him & tell him it bothers you & to give it a break, or atleast ease off.

         


  

Katenemsmom
by on Feb. 5, 2009 at 12:34 PM

The more you have the more you want.  Don't worry, guys are just visual.  It doesn't mean that you aren't satisfying him. 

nokesmomof2
by on Feb. 5, 2009 at 12:36 PM

maybe hes not jackin off to it maybe hes just lookin at it to get in the mood more?? idk but if your really mad about try talkin to him

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Jillian
by on Feb. 5, 2009 at 12:36 PM

It sound like he may be developing a problem. I'm not an expert or a professional but i have heard of porn and or sex disorders and if he's getting sex that often and still going crazy with the sex he may have some issue. I'd try to talk to him and see if it's a new thing or what and go from there. My DH has gotten so little sex since i got pregnant that i've told him to have fun with the computer and he still hasn't so it sounds strange to me if he's getting so much why he'd need more. but i'm no expert it's just my opinion. good luck and i really doubt it has anything to do with you.

chiquilla82
by on Feb. 5, 2009 at 12:42 PM


Quoting Katenemsmom:

The more you have the more you want.  Don't worry, guys are just visual.  It doesn't mean that you aren't satisfying him. 


 exactly.. men think about sex all day long.. they aren't like us. we have a million other things on our minds, and sex sometimes gets put on the back burner.. have a discussion with him about it..

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