She will be 3 next month. I have to literally pry her legs apart to wash her vagina. I don't know why she won't let me. She hates for me to clean her with a wet wipe when she has a dirty diaper and God forbid she needs diaper rash cream. I mean she gets to the point that she will be red and irritated because she will not let me clean her. I have to force her to let me. Is this just the age or what?