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sex question (tmi) probably.

Posted by on Apr. 8, 2009 at 1:53 PM
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I might get a little deep into this conversation, but I need opinions

before  my df and i got pregnant, we were both nymphos, all we wanted was sex thats all we ever did, like 4 5 times a day every day..it was just the best thing ever, but now that I gave birth to my daughter Aalinah (pronounced Alina) I lost my sex drive..and I really do miss it.  I try and do it as much as i can push myself too..but its hard for me..i mean i have my days when I really get horny..but thats once in a while.. i was wondering, if this has happened to any of you girls before, and what have you done/doing to make things better? 

by on Apr. 8, 2009 at 1:53 PM
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Bree303
by on Apr. 8, 2009 at 1:57 PM

It's normal to lose your sex drive after kids.  Oh, and the more kids you have the rarer sex becomes. LOL!

No but seriously, talk to your doc, it could be hormonal.  He can help with that part of it.

Sex was few & far b/w after we had kids but now that they are getting older & more independent we are re-discovering each other again.

 




Logansmommy1228
by on Apr. 8, 2009 at 1:58 PM

I had this problem after I had my daughter also. It was really weird because my daughter was not my first born. My husband and I had a very active sex life, even when I was pregnant with  my son and after but once I became pregnant with my daughter it started to decrease and right after I had her it was really bad. My daughter just turned a year old and sometimes I still have problems but it is starting to come back more. I dont know if it is just hormones or what but I have been concerned also.

lily7
by on Apr. 8, 2009 at 2:02 PM
I must be an odd fish. After each time I had kids I get more hornier and hornier, even till this day. My kids are teenagers and I am in my early 40s and stl. Horny as ever and thank god my fiance is very sexually active still.
aprilhaines22
by on Apr. 8, 2009 at 3:01 PM

The same thing happened to me I used to have sex all of the time like you but like you said I lost my drive for it too but I have found if you bring in some toys and porn you like have a excitement for it even tough you may not like it or think it will work just try it I wasn't in to it at first and my dh told me just try it and if I don't like it then we don't have to do it ever again well let me tell you vibrators during sex is so so so so good then you have porn I get turned on when I see other people having sex I don't know about you but yeah it does me. Just open up a little bit more to toys and fun things you haven't tried yett just look around at an adult store.

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