i want the IUD that has no hormones and lasts for 10 years, and i don't plan on taking it out to have more kids. so if i want to have one more baby , i have to decide now ...before i get pregnant again soon. i want to have it while i'm still young and get it out of the way. i have a 3 1/2 year old, a 2 year old and the baby now. I'm a stay at home mom right now, but the kids are all sharing a room. but i don't want to not have the other baby just because of house size.
i love being a mom, but don't want to feel like an octomom and annoy the hubby. also , i don't look forward to stretching my belly out again and going thru labor, but it might be worth it.
what do you think? should i have the 4th and then be done with it? or call it quits now?