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I was informed earlier this week that I have gestational diabetes. *scream* im sooo scared. so i have the little needle thing with the machine to test mysef. and i hate all of this. im so scared that they will give me a cesarean. im so scared they will take the baby out of me early. i just want to scream!!! dh has been so good & undrestanding, but i feel like he is downplaying this whole thing. he thinks im getting all worked up over the cesarean. has anyone else had this? what were your outcomes? im sooo worried about the baby, and my other baby i just had a year ago. if i get a cesarean, how am i going to heal, and care for my 1 year old & a new born?.... advise please??
I'm sorry. I was lucky enough not to have to deal with that, but here's bump for you. Hopefully you get the answers you're looking for. Best of luck!



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Why would having GD make you have to have a c-section? I've never heard that.
I had GD when I was pregnant with my twins and I was able to control it with diet. Just record everything that you eat and make sure that you make modifications to keep your numbers where they need to be at. Talk to your nutritionist to be sure that you completely understand your food options and how to maximize your choices. You and your baby will be fine.
And if for some reason you do have to have a c-section, just try not to stress. Go into it calm and take your time afterwards. Don't try to do too much, but you do need to force yourself to stand up and walk around when they tell you to. I didn't need pain pills after the first day and I was able to move around and take care of my girls just fine. Mind over matter, that's what I always tell myself.
Listen to your husband and you will be FINE! Just breathe and try to relax. :)
I had 2 pregnancies both with gestational diabetes, each time I was put on insulin and had to inject it in my stomach before each meal.
DD#1 wasn't effected by it I kept my sugars under control
DD#2 came out BIG, swollen and had fluid retention from diabetes I didn't control it quite as well
Both my kids were premature but that's also due to severe preeclampsia and having gest.diabetes puts you at risk preeclampsia. I hated the diabetes, I was in denial, I had a horrible time sticking to the diet, I was depressed from it , it was not fun. But I had to deal with it to get my babies.
You will learn Meat and Veggies are your best friends and anything that tastes good is a no no. Milk , Juice, Soda Pop are pretty much out of the question, Diet Soda and Water or Sugar Free drinks are your other best friend. Gotta really really watch it with carbs/fruits, you can still have these things but you have to watch it. If your on insulin like I was you can have more of these things so I didn't mind being on insulin.
I donot have diabetes now but I am prediabetic like I'm really at highrisk and my sugars are still elevated but not enough to consider me diabetic at this time I need to lose weight and exercise but that's another post for another day. My Aunt had gest. diabetes too and is skinny as a rail so it doesn't matter how big or small you are. Gest. Diabetes runs in families and if you have it, your mom probaly had it too they didn't test for Gest.Diabetes til the late 90's so obivously my mom wasn't tested when I was born so I will never know if she had it or not.
If you have any questions message me. Been there done that!
I had 2 c-sections too! Had no problem taking care of the baby or my older child. The first 5 days after a c-section is the hardest after that it's a piece of cake. I stopped at Babies R Us on the way home from the hospital to shop and grab a few things we needed.

I had it with my first ... he was 8 lbs 12 oz ... and was a week early due to being induced .... it was a vaginal birth ... the words c-section never came out of my doctor's mouth.
I have it again with this pregnancy .. I'm 24 weeks pregnant ... due in August. I'm on a small amount of insulin at bedtime ... that's about it... I think it's harder to control the second time ... but we are managing.
It's important for you to know that it's not your fault ... just take care of yourself ... count your carbs ... and measure your sugars....things will be fine.
Thanks ladies.... its all very reassuring. i have a feeling this baby is smaller than baby #1 (she was 8lb 10oz) but you never know. to the PP, im so sorry you had it so tough. i have read alot on this & thats why im so scared. i kinda feel like you do, im not in denial yet, but im mad. i dont know why, but im mad that i got it. i was fine with baby #1. so i cant understand how i got it with baby #2. but, you know the other PP was right. my mom had it with my brother. he was 10 lbs 2 oz. but she didnt have it with me ( i was first, brother was second born) Its also very reassuring that not every one has a cesarean. maybe i can do this without one. but if i have one, i pray everything will be ok. like other PP said, "mind over matter". i say that too ;)
Good for you! And I didn't say this in my reply, but I had a c-section because my twins were both facedown, so it was safer for the three of us. But it was never mentioned as an option because I had GD.
Quoting jsi:Thanks ladies.... its all very reassuring. i have a feeling this baby is smaller than baby #1 (she was 8lb 10oz) but you never know. to the PP, im so sorry you had it so tough. i have read alot on this & thats why im so scared. i kinda feel like you do, im not in denial yet, but im mad. i dont know why, but im mad that i got it. i was fine with baby #1. so i cant understand how i got it with baby #2. but, you know the other PP was right. my mom had it with my brother. he was 10 lbs 2 oz. but she didnt have it with me ( i was first, brother was second born) Its also very reassuring that not every one has a cesarean. maybe i can do this without one. but if i have one, i pray everything will be ok. like other PP said, "mind over matter". i say that too ;)
Hun take a DEEP breath. Its nothing to get so worked up over. I had GD while pregnant with DD. Its fine. Yes you have to test your blood sugar , and thats not even bad. A tiny pin prick. I thought it was going to hurt, it doesn't. You just have to watch what you eat. Not hard at all. It does take some getting used to but ...... you learn. I only gained 5 lbs my whole pregnancy cause it made me eat better. You wont automatically need a Csection ..... so take a breather on that. They wont induce you early unless the baby starts to measure big. I was induced at 39 weeks, 1 week to be exact from my due date, and DD was born 7 lbs 9 oz. So really, deep breaths, its going to be fine. Oh and stay away from the artificial sweeteners, they can affect your BS lvls even when ppl say its fine to use.



Quoting mom.of.twins:
Why would having GD make you have to have a c-section? I've never heard that.
I had GD when I was pregnant with my twins and I was able to control it with diet. Just record everything that you eat and make sure that you make modifications to keep your numbers where they need to be at. Talk to your nutritionist to be sure that you completely understand your food options and how to maximize your choices. You and your baby will be fine.
And if for some reason you do have to have a c-section, just try not to stress. Go into it calm and take your time afterwards. Don't try to do too much, but you do need to force yourself to stand up and walk around when they tell you to. I didn't need pain pills after the first day and I was able to move around and take care of my girls just fine. Mind over matter, that's what I always tell myself.
Listen to your husband and you will be FINE! Just breathe and try to relax. :)
Having GD can make women have bigger babies, thats sometimes the need for a Csection, but not always.



My sister had Gestational Diabetes and she had a c-section. The incisions are very small nowadays and you can barely see it on her, it is right on her pubic line so not noticable.
It takes longer to heal but don't worry it will heal. Just make sure you round up some extra help, or have your hubby take a couple weeks off work. My sis also had two kids to take care of but grandma stayed at their house for a bit to distract the other kids lol.
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