Okay... I have an embarrassing question ladies... have you ever used a tightening cream (down there) and what worked? I'm looking for one to make things a bit more pleasurable for DH and I. I've tried kegels and things aren't really badbut I've had very bad tears with 2 of my kids and it's just not right anymore... Kegels are only doing so much. I can keep Ben Wa balls in but I don't see much of a difference in how they've affected me during sex. I just need some advice on whether you've tried tightening cream and if so, did it work? Please help me out, I have no one else to ask!