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Posted by on Jun. 9, 2009 at 11:50 AM
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Im 20. I have a three year old little girl and just found out i am expecting my second child in feburary. Its a big ball of mess. so any kind of advice would be greatly appreciated.

by on Jun. 9, 2009 at 11:50 AM
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by Bronze Member on Jun. 9, 2009 at 11:52 AM

my daughter is 18 months and im expecting my son in late july or august. I'm nervous as anythin because things are so tight but stock up on as much as you can now. That's what i did but the stores around here let me exchange anything

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by on Jun. 9, 2009 at 12:15 PM

shop smart.  Buy second hand and check out garage sales.  You can find whole wardrobes for babies at about a tenth of the cost to buy brand new.

If you are not going to breast feed, generic store brand formula is just the same as the name brand stuff.  They are held to the same standards as everyone else. 

i dont really know what you need advice on, so let us know

by on Jun. 9, 2009 at 12:22 PM

well, I guess under normal circumstances id be excited. and i am to an extent. But i dont know how im going ot handle two kids. the 2nd onces dad is being a bit of well a baby about the whole thing. I dont know how to talk to him without setting him off. Yesterday after talkin and arguing for a week or two. We decided that living together as roomates would be the best option. That was UNTILL we told his parents. and they were pretty much like talking him out of doing ANYTHING with me unless it consists of him visiting and paying child support. I already have one kid who doesnt see her dad as much as she should and i dont wanna watch my 2nd suffer like she does. Its not fair and i dont know what to do or think. Im hoping he comes around but hes quite the stubborn ass sometimes.

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