my family is full of drama lately! everyday my mom calls me and has to tell me all the drama going on at the theier house. ok to make a long story short my brother is engaged to a phsyco! she stold a lady she was babysitting for's credit card and charged a bunch of stuff on it got caught and now is on probation for 18 months for it. so she cant leave wisconsin so my mom and dad like idiots let her and my brother live with them. she treats my mom like crap and so does my brother they disrespect them even though they are living there for free i know that and they still discrepect them. So my mom calls me with a attitude problem now and says she might go away for a while to "find" herself and stuff and i am like i dont know what her problem is my dd's birthday party is next saturday i dont want my mom coping out cause of all this i am so mad! i know its her fault for letting the girl stay there but i still want her too
drama family is hard to deal with, we got a little of that too! this one must be very tough for your mom, you should talk to her privately and try to help her make a plan, when all in all she should kick them out! but for a momma its probuly hard, so she should give a small time limit that he can stay there, and you should talk to ur bro and his girl about being disrespectful to mom! good luck
You can't really blame your mom for allowing them to stay. She's just being a caring parent. It's actually your brother who allows his girlfriend to disrespect your mom/family. If he puts her in her place, she wouldn't be disrespecting your family like that.
If BOTH your brother and his girlfriend can't respect your mother and her kindness, they should be thrown out. Your brother shows no respect for his own mom which gives his girlfriend the opportunity to also have ZERO respect for your mother/family.
I would never put up with my brother's girlfriend/wife disrespecting my mother or family, I'd definitely put her in her place without my mom having to do it herself.
Why don't you get together with your mother and talk things out with her? Help give her some feedback. She's obviously under stress and doesn't know what she should do at this point. We're talking about her own son needing a place to stay, not just the girlfriend alone.
Hope everything goes well. Good luck!
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- hannahsmommy321
on Jul. 4, 2009 at 9:25 PM