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Hotel slumber party; should I let my 15 y/o go?

Posted by on Aug. 12, 2009 at 3:47 PM
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Okay, so my 15 yr old dd wants to go to her cousin's party this weekend. First, cousin will be 19, second she's having a hotel slumber party.  She has invited a couple of her girlfriends, and my dd's stepsister who is also 15. Stepsister has a 19 y/o aunt whose a bit on the eccentric side who has been invited as well. Don't know if she's coming or not.  I'm wondering if this is a good idea.  They will pretty much be unsupervised because my neice's aunt will be there for a while, but she's not spending the night.  I'm not completely confident in the 19 y/o niece's common sense or responsibility.  There have been some questionable incidents involving my dd and her. Don't get me wrong, my niece is not a wild child or anything, just a bit on the irresponsible side.  She's been babied all her life, so doesn't make too many major decisions on her on.  What do you think CM's.  Should I let my dd go? What would you do?

by on Aug. 12, 2009 at 3:47 PM
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peanutsmommy1
by on Aug. 12, 2009 at 3:49 PM

 If there is going to be an adult there

HELL NO

 

DKVmom
by on Aug. 12, 2009 at 3:50 PM

Ah if it's not supervised by an adult...I would say no. But that's just me.  

christina0607
by on Aug. 12, 2009 at 3:51 PM

I wouldn't let my child go.

ariannasmom114
by on Aug. 12, 2009 at 3:51 PM

hell no my dd wouldnt be going there cause i remember what i was doing at hotel partys at 19 and i surly wouldnt want my dd to be doing that

spunky946
by Bronze Member on Aug. 12, 2009 at 3:51 PM

 No parent = a big fat hell no.  I think she is too young to be some place unsupervised.  JMO.

BrandonsMom1000
by on Aug. 12, 2009 at 3:51 PM

Heck No!

Godsgirl4ever06
by on Aug. 12, 2009 at 3:52 PM


Quoting christina0607:

I wouldn't let my child go.



superexcitedmom
by on Aug. 12, 2009 at 3:52 PM

NO... especially since there isnt going to be an adult there...  

bumblebeestingu
by on Aug. 12, 2009 at 3:53 PM

maybe just for a few hours...but not the night if theres no supervision.

beccacihacz
by on Aug. 12, 2009 at 3:53 PM


Quoting ariannasmom114:

hell no my dd wouldnt be going there cause i remember what i was doing at hotel partys at 19 and i surly wouldnt want my dd to be doing that

A big ditto here.

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