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Posted by on Aug. 25, 2009 at 4:09 PM
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hi all

my name is lisa and i have 4kids and my boyfriend has two we all live together.i am have alot of problem with my kids with cursing and hitting and the not doing what their told i am at my wit ends can anyone give me some advice.my kids ages are 12,10,8,5 my boyfriends are 13,12 mine are all girls and his are a girl and a boy.hope to hear from ya soon.-lisa

by on Aug. 25, 2009 at 4:09 PM
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nokesmomof2
by on Aug. 25, 2009 at 4:11 PM

what forms of punshment have you tried?? if you havent try it yet i would suggest takin stuff away like tvs, cellphone (if they have any) . the things they use the most i would try takin away good luck momma

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mamad122
by on Aug. 25, 2009 at 4:40 PM

For the 8 and 5 year olds I would try time out. If that doesn't work, take away their favorite toy or don't let them play their fav game. For the older ones I would ground them from their TVs, iPods, cell phones, going to a friends, etc. Something else you could try is giving them an allowance and keeping each child's in a separate envelope and when they disobey, curse, hit, etc. take a certain amount out. That will entice them to behave so that they actually have money left at the end of the week! Good luck :-)

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by on Aug. 25, 2009 at 4:40 PM

O wow, do you curse cause if you do that might be one of the reasons they think it's ok to. Also to punish them take away video games, TV, Cell phones, Ipods stuff like that and tell them why you are taking them away and that they can get it back when they listen/ stop cursing. be strong they will tell you oyu are mean or that they hate you or stuff like that but keep in mind that it's for their well being that you are doing this.

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