please be nice

What's done is done - you have to focus on the future.....take a deep breath.....

You WILL have tough times but you'll get through it - I take things one day at a time and sometimes one hour at a time, but in the end you'll have two wonderful babies!

 i dont have much advice here i couldnt imagine having another baby right now i think about that all the time. i think you deffinitely need to keep your child. baby was given to you for a reason and you dont need a man to be a good mommy. yes the extra helping hand helps but dont determine the fate of your child over if the dad will stay with you or not there are PLENTY of single mothers who do it everyday.. i would say join a support group for single moms and start picking names! good luck momma

You have to do what is right for you and your child.  If you really don't want to keep the child try looking into adoption.  That's the best I can do sorry.

I know how hard it is. I was there, my babys daddy and I broke up when I was 9 months pregnant and already had an 18m old by him, all that he caused me was stress and headaches and BS. So my advice to you is to focus on your children now and if he wants no parts of it than fine its his loss but in no way yours. Just find support in your friends and family or a support group around you and although sometimes will be tough I admit it you will be glad you did it when you hold that baby in your arms for the first time and know that out of that bad relationship at least you got two beautiful blessings. Thats the way I look at it and love my boys so much I just cannot imagine a second in my day without them. I am here if you need me.

You can have this baby and you can raise both of them... right now, its overwhelming... but you can do it! I'm not going to be mean or put you down... that doesn't help anyone.

Do you have family around? Family helps me a great deal and I'm a single Mother. My Mom has been great! Or friends near you?

Take a deep breath. Remember there are resources out there for you... WIC ..and other programs...look online.

Its not the end of the world... ok? Keep that chin up!!!!

im not gonna have an abortion and i cant imagine adoption im just scared thank u so much that means alot

You will be alright. Honestly. I don't know why you would even want to be with someone who would be as low as to leave his pregnant girlfriend and child. You can do better than that. Both of your children will help you get through this too. They will keep you busy and give you a reason everyday to keep moving forward. Have faith in yourself that you are strong enough to do it on your own and not put up with crap that will just bring you down. Good luck!