My preggo friend was venting about how she is totally NOT in the mood to get “close†to her husband and she asked what my libido was like during my pregnancies. For my son – my ‘urge’ to do the do decreased a bit and I think it was cause that preggo feeling was all new to me and I just didn’t feel sexy with all the raging hormones.
However, with my daughter’s pregnancy – I felt really fabulous and sexy and my cravings for intimacy and snuggle time actually increased. Even my SO noticed the difference between the two pregnancies. :)
What about you – did our libido tank while being preggo or did you crave more snuggle time with SO?
MOM
With my 1st my DH was deployed so it didn't matter what my libido was like it was up to me to take care of it.
This time around it hasn't changed at all. I guess the only difference between me not pregnant & now (23w1d) is that I don't want to cuddle as much because I'm extra hot. I swear I'm pregnant with heaters & give birth to babies. lol.
~~~ The kind of woman who doesn't have to defend my views, & or parenting style~~
I really lost the interest after a while. It got to be too much work since I gained a lot of weight and it was all in my stomach and my dh is not a small guy himself. This was only at 30 weeks lol.
Wife to the best husband ever (9-23-03), Mother to a wonderful son (7-7-08), and TTC #2.
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- PassionDiva_NY
on Nov. 9, 2009 at 3:56 PM