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My lil family

Posted by on Nov. 24, 2009 at 11:15 AM
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kissingLike other I have two babies under two. Rihanna is a newborn, she's 3 weeks now. Last night it was so hard for me. The older wanted to play and the other one needed me to carry her. Their father was sleeping. I'm still tired while the 3 of them are in bed and I can't sleep. I need more help but my husband is lazy about that. What can I do?

Posted by on Nov. 24, 2009 at 11:15 AM
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mari622
by on Nov. 24, 2009 at 11:34 AM

Hi you got to tell your husband to give you a hand with the kids or help you with chores cause if you don't say nothing his not even going to try.That what i do with my hubby cause they think that because we are home we have nothing to do but keeping a home strait is some work and i now about that.

mommy_mpoon
by on Nov. 25, 2009 at 1:11 AM

Like the previous reply, you need to tell him.

When I was pregnant with our second, I actually sat my husband down and made a list of things I'd need help with after I give birth. My husband is not lazy, but his job makes him exhausted...so my list consisted of things that required heavy lifting or climbing up and down. It made things easier since he knew what he needed to do...of course I'd need to remind him or wake him up at times, but at least he knew ahead that it would happen.

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