Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

Did you wait?

Posted by on Jun. 3, 2010 at 10:18 PM
  • 27 Replies
Did you wait the 6 weeks after the baby before having sex? I know that they want you to heal and all that but what if you have and you feel ready?
Posted on CafeMom Mobile
by on Jun. 3, 2010 at 10:18 PM
Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Replies (1-10):
Pamarita
by on Jun. 3, 2010 at 10:19 PM

No, I didn't tear or anything, we waited almost 4 weeks, and it didn't hurt, but "it" wasn't the same yet, it went back to normal now, thank God, lol.

gfargas
by on Jun. 3, 2010 at 10:21 PM

With my first we waited 10 days and the first couples times were not great but it got better and back to normal fast

With my second we waited 12 days and it was pretty good and by the 2nd time was back to normal

I tore with both.

mom24147
by on Jun. 3, 2010 at 10:21 PM

im trying to wait but its hard! lol i had a c section and its been almost 5 weeks, i can't wait much longer lol

 

DelilahsMom4108
by on Jun. 3, 2010 at 10:24 PM

I waited 4weeks with my 1st but then got pregnant with my second after only 8 weeks ... so after I had my second I waited until after I had a very strong birth control :)

lauratupper
by on Jun. 3, 2010 at 10:27 PM

nope

Honeybun09
by on Jun. 3, 2010 at 10:27 PM

I didn't even stop bleeding, or heal, until 12 weeks. LOL.


~Honeybun09: Babies Mod~Have a baby? Come join the Babies group today!

Chrissy9479
by on Jun. 3, 2010 at 10:37 PM

 yep we waited, i was in a lot of pain, i tore and had hemorrids majorly bad! it hurt to walk for 4 weeks, by 6 weeks i was better but still a little sore. we ended up waiting till 8 weeks, it was a little different but didn't hurt, now its pretty much like before :)

1wildchild
by Platinum Member on Jun. 3, 2010 at 10:37 PM

Yes we waited the full 6 wks because I tore pretty badly and was sore so I wanted the doctor's ok to have sex again first. I am glad we waited because the first few times were really uncomfortable for awhile.

expectantmom81
by Erin on Jun. 3, 2010 at 10:38 PM

I actually waited longer because it hurt.

mylilprincesses
by on Jun. 3, 2010 at 10:39 PM

i never waited 6 wks! lol

Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)