so my sister is pregnant but she lives in VA with her husband because he is in the navy so she will be having the baby there so he can spend the most time with them. now "MY PLANS" were to fly up there, hubby, baby, me in aug after she has him to help out and to spend a week with my god son! well my hubby just got a job and they said he cant go and he is telling me that yea you can go without the baby but i cant see myself going with her. and i know she will end up with his parents and that isnt my problem they are great but i want to take her but he says it isnt going happen unless i want "us" to be over! what should i do?